The range of sex toys is surprising. Sex toys vary from
purely male or purely female sex toys to toys which you can use by both
sexes. There are also some sex toys that can be considered sex aids or
marital aids.
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The Goal Of Sex Toys
Some
sex toys aid the man's erection, stimulate the feminine genitals to get
more sensitive or provide a different feel to 'normal' sex. Other sex
toys provide an 'environment' for variations in sex, for instance so
called orgy bed sheets. Sometimes they are used to assist an individual
who has difficulty with unaided sex to achieve sexual satisfaction. Most
sex toys provide a new way to directly stimulate the male or female
genitals to achieve sexual satisfaction, however.
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Using
sex toys can offer new variation and experiences within the sexual
experience. Additionally, it may offer a fantasy element for enhancing
or revitalising a partnership.
A sex toy provides direct
stimulation of the genitals in foreplay and/or during sexual intercourse
or as a means to obtain orgasm through only the stimulation provided by
the sex toy. That's the usual expectation.
Kinds of Sex Toys
Vibrating Sex Toys
Essentially
the most well-known sex toys are 'vibrators' which, as the name
suggests, provide stimulation of the genitals using vibration. May also
be used to stimulate any other part of the female body or that of a
man's, though they are mainly used to stimulate the clitoris.
The
most basic of those are pencil or wand shaped (though normally thicker
than a pencil). They often come with an internal battery (or two) which
powers a small electric motor. Sometimes the battery controller and pack
are external and connected to the vibrator with a wire. This motor is
fitted having a small, from balance, weight connected to the shaft.
Because this weight rotates it throws the motor and vibrator into a
small circular movement that causes the vibration you feel.
With
a vibrator that has a controller, because the power is increased the
rate of the motor increases along with it both the rate and strength of
vibration. The rate and strength of vibration effects how stimulating
you find the sex toy. The best effect will not be as strong and as
quickly as possible. The optimum settings may well change as the degree
of excitement builds. For the greatest results it is worth purchasing a
vibrator that is controllable.
Different vibrators will
have different characteristics and you could well find you want one
combination a lot more than another along with your preference could
even vary depending on which part of your body you are stimulating.
Recently
electronic vibrator controllers have appeared which offer not only the
static control of power/speed but also allow you to select patterns of
power surges and pulses. These can be extremely effective.
There are also other vibrating sex toys like butterfly stimulators and vibrating penis rings.
Other Powered Sex Toys
There
are several sex toys that use alternative methods to provide mechanical
stimulation. These usually rely on a motor that creates the sex toy
continually change its shape which provides a kind of rotational
movement or makes it move back and forth. The back and forth movements
are often powered by an air pump instead of a motor. The movements
happen to be used to create, as an example, mechanical licking tongues,
vibrators that 'penetrate' the vagina and mouth simulators to give a man
a 'blow job'.
On the bigger scale and a lot more expensive, there are 'sex machines' that incorporate thrusting and vibrating dildos.
Combination Sex Toys
So,
far we have covered moving, thrusting and vibrating sex toys. You might
have guessed these are all offered in a bewildering array of
combinations.
A common combination in numerous 'Rabbit
Style' vibrators is clitoral stimulation using vibrations and vaginal
stimulation using movement and sometimes a thrusting motion also.
Many
sex toys add varying textures for their surfaces; a dildo or vibrator
may have ridges or soft spikes or even a rippled shape.
Sensation Change Sex Toys
Some sex toys as opposed to provide vibrating or moving stimulation, modify the feel of sex.
For
example there are a variety of sleeves to set over the penis to provide
different sensations for both partners while involved in penetrative
sex.
You will find rings that squeeze the bottom of the
penis and tighten the scrotum that help the man's erection and in
addition changes his sensations. You can find penis extenders and
thickeners which might provide a man's partner greater sensations during
penetration.
There are numerous lubricants that will significantly alter the feel of sex.
You can find PVC and Polyurethane bed sheets which can be water and oil proof which you can use for slippery or messy sex.
Why Use A Sex Toy?
A
great question is: so why do people make use of a sex toy? Surely
tongues, clitorises, vaginas, penises and fingers etc all provide great
sexual enjoyment and stimulation.
Well, besides
therapeutic uses (eg erection assistance), sex toys can drive the
imagination (being taken with a machine), provide variety (new methods
to do old things), vary the stimulating effects in otherwise normal sex
(penis sleeves) plus some can provide experiences difficult with 'normal
body parts' (particularly vibrating sex toys and electro-stimulation).
Where To Begin
Try
one of the simpler vibrators first if you have not tried a sex toy
before and don't yet have an idea of what you might like. Most likely
you may enjoy the experience and then begin to wonder how many other
delights can be obtained with increased sophisticated vibrators along
with other sex toys ...
Find you do enjoy sex toys try
out a few others and find what suits you if you. Most importantly, have a
good time trying them out!